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You are here to either find an approach or a better one to contact dominant women (femdoms) and have them respond to you, in particular on Fetlife.  

Yes, the professional dommes will respond, that's their business.  And, I have much respect for them.  If you seek a response leading to a potential play partner from a non-professional femdom, read on. 

Does Size Matter? and Other Tips

Some don'ts are easily spotted...
Hello Miss You are so beautiful. Wow. but I have something that might interest you I can get you logins for Netflix hulu and Spotify and hbo etc or else a place to watch any tv shows or movies you want, an app called kodi. Works on most devices. Just want to do something for you. I am good with tech :)
Best to not offer illegal activities in your first note.  This one is just a bit odd.

Or, how about this one?
Written one month ago:
OMG, such a beautiful profile. Classy and sincere. And some seriously gorgeous pics - WOW! Glad You came back to LA :-) Definitely got my attention!
Respectfully,
AC

Follow up written 10 days ago:
Happy hump day, beautiful Lady
Can you spot the issue?  I share the answer in my Six Tips To Impress a Non-Professional Female Dominant.  

Oh, and how about penis pics?  A do or don't?
Read on.

Get The Six Tips

I have six key tips to share with you to attract quality non-professional (and professionals as well!) female dominants on Fetlife.  You can directly apply these insights to your approach online and some in-person.  I share a few of the messages I have received on Fetlife with notes on what is good and how to improve.
 
The six key tips file will be emailed to you with a $5 minimum tribute that will be fully donated to the Humane Society*.  I am providing the six tips to better our community and hopefully bring more happiness to subs and femdoms. 

​Step 1:  Email Medea at MedeaLA@gmail.com or email on Fetlife at MedeaLA indicating you want the Tip Sheet.
Step 2:  I will send you PayPal account info.  
Step 3:  Provide a $5 minimum tribute.
Step 4: The Six Key Tips will be emailed to you.
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Want more?  Read on.
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Want more?
​Of course, you do.

Want to directly ask me your specific question on how to approach dominant women on Fetlife or at an event?  

​You will have the opportunity to have a consultation by email or a 10-15 minute Skype call to review your specific questions with me.  I ask a $15 minimum for a Skype call or email which will be fully donated to the Humane Society. 
 
*Why the Humane Society?  I love dogs almost as much as having my subs on a leash.  ;-)

Contact me at MedeaLA@gmail.com or on Fetlife at MedeaLA.  
Your confidentiality is respected and no info will be shared.